![]() I may not be at the stage where I'm searching for passion from another man, but even this early on in my relationship, I can say that marriage takes work.Īs Orlando put it more eloquently than me, "Marriage doesn't take 'work', per se, but it does require concerted effort and investment in each other, and in you." I couldn't agree more. I've been married for less than six months. The situation starts to reek of complacency and satisfaction in mediocrity," says Orlando. They start strong, having a decent sense of how to capture a woman at the beginning, but upon entering a relationship they are unprepared for the long haul and investment a successful relationship demands past the dating phase. She wants to be desired, seduced, and connected with on a regular basis. Once she's 'his,' he stops putting in that effort, but she still longs for it. "When a man begins dating a woman, he puts in tons of effort he woos her. RELATED: 4 Honest Men Confess The Real Reason They Cheated On Their WivesĪt one point, he asked one date why she stayed with her husband, and she said, quite frankly, "I love him." Not only did the three women share the same complaints like " lack of passion," and "lack of attention," but it also seemed to be a constant theme with most of the women in their Ashley Madison profiles. Orlando went on a date with three women, whom he referenced in his article. Orlando, went undercover on Ashley Madison to see whether if he posed as a married guy looking to have a fling with a married woman, he could come to some understanding as to why women cheat.Īccording to The Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, nearly 50 percent of married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some point in their marriage.Īnd since those percentages have doubled in the last 10 years, it only makes sense that we get to the heart of the matter and figure out why. Many even stated their overt love for their husbands, painting them in a positive light." In fact, as Anderson noted, "They were adamant that they were not looking for a new husband. RELATED: The Real Reason Men Cheat Is Sadder Than Expected What the study also found is that, of those women, zero of them wanted to get a divorce. ![]() They want to be wined and dined and made to feel like they're appreciated and attractive again. What they found was that 67 percent of the women just want some passion (and sex) back in their lives again. Anderson and his fellow scientists surveyed 100 straight, married, women between the ages of 25 and 45 to find out why women cheat. ![]() RELATED: I Had An Affair - And It Completely Saved My MarriageĪs with any dating site, Ashley Madison definitely does their research. Personally, I fall somewhere in the middle. If you've yet to hear of this site, then allow me to explain: it's a dating website for married people who are looking to have affairs.ĭepending on where you stand on morals, you may either think this is the worst thing in the world or it's a brilliant concept. It seems like a very human response to monotony if you ask me.Īnderson also happens to be the "chief science officer" at Ashley Madison.
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